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"When we were children, we used to think that when we were grown-up we would no longer be vulnerable. But to grow up is to accept vulnerability."

The above quote is by Madeleine L'Engle, author of A Wrinkle in Time -- and, in my opinion, a woman who really knows what she's talking about. Vulnerability is one of the strongest factors at play in all of us. It leads us into love, fear, sorrow -- even hate. We'll do anything to avoid feeling exposed. But part of being an adult - and having mature relationships - is learning to tolerate vulnerability.

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The depressing divorce rate in New York today is enough to make many soon-to-be-wed couples feel a little cold in the feet. When fifty percent of all marriages fail, the prospect of walking down that aisle becomes even more intimidating. Now might be the best time to consider couples counseling. Research shows that couples benefit significantly from premarital counseling. Below are some of the reasons why.